Challenge assumptions

Question everything. Ask yourself what you might be assuming.

Dig deeply, and look at every facet of that assumption. It might be helpful to type or write this out.

• Ask for clarification when in doubt.
• Be clear in your communication.
• Avoid misunderstandings by being open and honest.
• Be open to hearing the other person's point of view.
• Avoid mind reading and projecting your own thoughts and feelings onto others.
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When giving advice, people with more experience often make the mistake of assuming that they know best.

To offer expertise in a way that's truly helpful, use it to inform the person about the decision at hand. Tell them what you know about their options, possibly offering a recommendati...