The victim creates more and more problems to solve - not because additional real problems exist, but because it gets her attention and affection she craves.
The saver solves and solves - not because she actually cares about the problems, but because she believes she must fix others' problems in order to deserve attention and affection for herself.
In both cases, the intentions are selfish and conditional and therefore self-sabotaging, and genuine love is rarely experienced.
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