I think it’s a matter of emotional fitness. That being a compulsive lecturer lacks assertiveness is a kind of haloshas. You have to work on the emotional muscles just like on the physical and mental ones. Again, it’s clear about physical fitness and mental fitness, why not about emotions? I already said why.
So what to do? first of all changing perception of emotions is good. Sensitivity is power. Thinking about others and considering what they think of us is necessary for the social creatures that we are, you just have to learn to get it right. Skillfully and efficiently.
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