The Psychology Behind Unconditional Positive Regard

We all have two instinctual urges and desires, based on innate human needs and instincts, that make UPR an effective tool:

• The drive towards socially constructive behavior, meaning interacting effectively and positively with others.
• The need for self-determination, or the right and responsibility to choose one’s own path.

When the clients need for self-determination feels respected, and the therapist adopts the attitude that the client is doing the best they can, the client is more likely to allow their urge towards socially constructive behavior to drive their decisions and actions.