We overestimate how much attention people pay to our words and appearance. But in reality, everyone thinks what others think of them.
Ex: Ankur is worried that everyone will hate his new shoes.
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I wish we were taught about these biases in school, in addition to what school taught us. These biases prepare us for life in more ways than the curriculum does. - Ankur Warikoo
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