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Going all-in

The idea of going all-in is to realize that to ask your spouse to help make you feel loved and grow into an ideal authentic version of yourself is a massive ask. You will do the same for him or her. And because it is such an enormous ask, you'll make sure to spend sufficient time together.

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THEATLANTIC

We Expect Way Too Much From Our Romantic Partners

theatlantic.com

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