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They remember you are their friend only when they need something from you.
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When you express a boundary, they try to guilt trip you, pressure you, or threaten you to try and force you to do things you don’t want to do.
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So this should be obvious but it's not. As a guy, don't trust another guy if he cheats on his spouse. If he'll betray the closest person to him, he doesn't care about his friends either, trust me
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They constantly say or do things where their only justification for doing so is "It was just a joke" when called out on it.
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How someone treats another person based on their job title. Anyone who treats a server, maid, garbage person, etc like crap is just telling the world how much a piece they are.
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If they brag about how they pulled a fast one on other people. As if to say how smart/slick they are and everyone else is stupid.
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It's always about them. They're always the hero or always the victim in their stories.
Can't take criticism but probably dish it out to everyone else. They're never wrong.
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A lot of times they’ll straight up tell you. Anybody who gleefully tells you “I’m such an asshole” or “I’m such a bi*ch” is usually not joking, even if they say it while laughing.
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I guess a subtle one is them treating you differently in public vs how they treat you privately. These can both go either way.
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When telling you about issues in their life and everything is everyone else’s fault/ no accountability
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Treating people well only if they can benefit from them in some way. If they treat you well, but treat random people like shit, they aren't good people. And they'll treat you like shit too if you ever stop being of use to them.
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Seem easy to spot "bad" people right? Not always I guess. Reddit is really a treasure if you know what to look after. Thousand of folks gave their thoughts, and voted on other's. Ideas kind of make sense, by sheer statistical number, from people's perspective.
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