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Insecure Conflict Strategies to Avoid

  1. Getting sidetracked from the real problem.
  2. Neglecting to effectively communicate feelings and needs.
  3. Reverting to personal attacks and destructiveness.
  4. Reacting "tit for tat" to the other's negativity with more negativity.
  5. Withdrawing.
  6. Forgetting to focus on the other's well-being.

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Five Secure Principles for Resolving Conflict

Five Secure Principles for Resolving Conflict

  1. Show basic concern for the other person's well-being.
  2. Maintain focus on the problem at hand.
  3. Refrain from generalizing the conflict.
  4. Be willig to engage.
  5. Effectively communicate feelings and needs.

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Types Of Attachment Styles

  1. Anxious attachment
  2. Secure attachment
  3. Avoidant attachment

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Securely attached adults believe that there are "many potential partners that would be responsive to their needs", and if they come across an individual who is not meeting their needs, they will typically lose interest very quickly. 

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Attachment Theory

Attachment theory is a psychological, evolutionary and ethological theory concerning relationships between humans. The most important tenet is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development.

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Secure

A securely attached adult will appear in the following ways:

  • excellent conflict resolution,
  • mentally flexible,
  • effective communicators,
  • avoidance of manipulation,
  • comfortable with closeness without fearfulness of being enmeshed,
  • quickly for...

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