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Stage 7: The surrender

Stage 7: The surrender

  • The chase can go on for years, but should the two of you work through all your triggers, insecurities, and challenges, eventually you may come back together.
  • This is the surrender into the relationship and big picture for you both.
  • You accept and allow each other to be who they are, flaws and all. This is where you come back again.
  • You accept and allow yourselves to be who you are too.

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Lawyer turned Artist Visionary Curator & Gallerist. Empowering self-love and joy through art & words. www.innerjoyart.com 💝 Instagram : dymphna.art

Interesting idea / concept of a relationship. In the end, whatever type of relationship one is in, focus on self-compassion, self-love and growth is the most helpful. The concept of a 'mirror' is also a useful reminder for us to work on ourselves and take responsibilities in order to move forward (in life and in the relationship).

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