Vocal fillers such as "um" or "ah" can indicate hesitation or uncertainty. They can also indicate that a person is trying to buy time to think about what to say next or not sure about the answer.

Vocal fillers 

Head tilted to the side: When someone tilts their head to the side, it can indicate curiosity, interest, or confusion. Head resting on hand: Never rest your head on the hand as it can indicate boredom, fatigue or inattentiveness.

Head tilted

Direct and prolonged eye contact can indicate confidence, attentiveness, and interest. Avoiding eye contact can indicate that a person is hiding something or is not being truthful.

Eye Contact

Standing tall with good posture can indicate confidence and power, while slouching can indicate lack of confidence or submission. Also, putting hands on hips can indicate assertiveness or dominance.

Posture 

A decrease in blinking rate can indicate, interest or deception. A normal blink rate is about 10 to 15 times per minute. Rapid blinking can indicate nervousness or lying. Excessive blinking can indicate discomfort or dishonesty. Long blinks can indicate boredom or lack of interest.

Blinking Rate

Dilated pupils, for example, can indicate that a person is excited or attracted to the person they are talking to. Conversely, if a person's pupils are constricted, they may be disinterested or uncomfortable.

Dialtion

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For 25 years, Joe used nonverbal communication as his primary professional tool in the FBI to catch and interview spies, criminals, and terrorists. Since leaving the FBI his life’s work has been in building awareness about the power of nonverbal communication, debunking myths and falsehoods about nonverbals and giving people insight in how to better utilize nonverbals to enhance their communication skills.

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