What you can't compromise with?
Everyone may have different things.
Obvious ones which are non-negotiable are violence, cheating....

NonNegotiable

Behavior with other people.
Same rules to both, agree to boundaries.
Posting pictures, flirting with other (recommended to not to agree)

What Is Ok

What you think about marriage counseling?
I know everything, I don't want to go for counseling is a red flag
Sometimes seeking help is better.

Counseling

What is involvement of parents in our marriage?
Ideal answer- couples decision shall be priority. It doesn't mean disrespect to parents.

Who Is Your Priority In Life

What is the role of man and woman or their families in marriage?
Man must do this and women should not do that. Preoccupied patriarchal notions shouldn't be there.

Equality

How much individual freedom.
You don't do that or force to do. It should requested and negotiated.
Not hurting others or hurting oneself shall be mantra.
Freedom is of utmost respect.

Free

How many hours couple spend time together in a week?
5-7 hours is fair one.
Spend time shopping, cooking, playing...
If someone can't spend minimum hours then it is red flag.

Time For Us

How much couples should know about each other?
Secrecy should not lead to dishonesty.
Space for fearless sharing.
My secrete is our secrete.

Privacy

What are the mistakes you made in the past relationship? How did you deal with it.
Ideal answer- no mistakes means fishy.
I dealt with it by communication because its harmful to suppress emotions

Any Mistakes

Marriage is an important milestone in everyone's life. So some cautions and questions before marrying someone. 

I’m Shridhar, a Counselling Psychologist. I share with you 10 non-obvious questions to ask your partner before marrying them. To watch a video on the single best advice for couples: https://youtu.be/xByXVgu3b5E To book counseling sessions: https://www.shridharlifeschool.com/counsel If you wanna support me, you can donate: www.https://www.shridharlifeschool.com/donate Apply for a job at Shridhar LifeSchool: https://forms.gle/VmWjMKeqzedBbCSd9 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShridharLifeSchool/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shridharlifeschool/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7CZHIRPDTgGtZACAPU9JhP?si=fb2cf9f6ffb449a4 Twitter: https://twitter.com/shridharchandak Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/shridharlifeschool/ 0:00 Intro 0:46 Question #1 Involvement of parents in marriage 1:27 Question #2 Mistakes made in the past 2:27 Question #3 What makes you angry 3:44 Question #4 Gender roles in marriage 4:37 Question #5 How much transparency will be there 5:15 Question #6 How much time to spend together 6:14 Question #7 Behaviours allowed with others 7:26 Question #8 Individual freedom 9:02 Question #9 Non-negotiable areas 9:36 Question #10 Ready for marriage counseling? 10:29 We now specialize in relationship counseling #Gottman

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I’m Shridhar, a Counselling Psychologist. I share with you 10 non-obvious questions to ask your partner before marrying them.

To watch a video on the single best advice for couples:
https://youtu.be/xByXVgu3b5E

To book counseling sessions: 
https://www.shridharlifeschool.com/counsel

If you wanna support me, you can donate: 
www.https://www.shridharlifeschool.com/donate

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0:00 Intro
0:46 Question #1 Involvement of parents in marriage
1:27 Question #2 Mistakes made in the past
2:27 Question #3 What makes you angry
3:44 Question #4 Gender roles in marriage
4:37 Question #5 How much transparency will be there
5:15 Question #6 How much time to spend together
6:14 Question #7 Behaviours allowed with others
7:26 Question #8 Individual freedom
9:02 Question #9 Non-negotiable areas
9:36 Question #10 Ready for marriage counseling?
10:29 We now specialize in relationship counseling

#Gottman

I'm a psychologist. I lead a team of therapists. We provide couple (marital) therapy and whatever knowledge I gain through my readings and therapy practice, I put that in my videos. Life is good :)

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