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10 questions to ask before marrying someone

10 questions to ask before marrying someone

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Who Is Your Priority In Life

What is involvement of parents in our marriage?

Ideal answer- couples decision shall be priority. It doesn't mean disrespect to parents.

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Any Mistakes

What are the mistakes you made in the past relationship? How did you deal with it.

Ideal answer- no mistakes means fishy.

I dealt with it by communication because its harmful to suppress emotions

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Equality

What is the role of man and woman or their families in marriage?

Man must do this and women should not do that. Preoccupied patriarchal notions shouldn't be there.

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Privacy

How much couples should know about each other?

Secrecy should not lead to dishonesty.

Space for fearless sharing.

My secrete is our secrete.

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Time For Us

How many hours couple spend time together in a week?

5-7 hours is fair one.

Spend time shopping, cooking, playing...

If someone can't spend minimum hours then it is red flag.

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What Is Ok

Behavior with other people.

Same rules to both, agree to boundaries.

Posting pictures, flirting with other (recommended to not to agree)

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Free

How much individual freedom.

You don't do that or force to do. It should requested and negotiated.

Not hurting others or hurting oneself shall be mantra.

Freedom is of utmost respect.

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NonNegotiable

What you can't compromise with?

Everyone may have different things.

Obvious ones which are non-negotiable are violence, cheating....

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Counseling

What you think about marriage counseling?

I know everything, I don't want to go for counseling is a red flag

Sometimes seeking help is better.

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anusha

I love to play badminton, TT, Volley ball. I also like singing, dance, public speaking, social work. Speak about gender justice, environmentalist. Assistant Professor of law.

CURATOR'S NOTE

Marriage is an important milestone in everyone's life. So some cautions and questions before marrying someone.

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