While other people are talking, we often focus on what we want to tell them rather than what they’re saying. This is because we tend to find ourselves more interesting than what other people have to say.
To overcome this and improve your social skills, you need to flip that mentality around and start thinking that the other people are actually fascinating.
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If you’re feeling like your social skills are a bit rusty or the prospect of attending a networking mixer has always put butterflies in your stomach, consider this:
When someone else is speaking, we are often waiting for our opportunity to say what we think, rather than actually listening.
Don’t rush in. Consider what they’ve said, and think carefully before giving them your response.
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