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7. Listen Closely To Words

7. Listen Closely To Words

  • By listening closely to what people have to say, you shift your attention from your thoughts to the person speaking.
  • This practice works for social anxiety as well and you can use it to overcome the fear of talking to people. Instead of being entangled in thoughts like "what do I have to say now to impress this person?", or "why did I say that?" which relate to the past or the present, you should focus on what the other person is saying and truly listen to them.

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