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The Deeper Conversation
If you become someone who is easy for others to talk to through what you say and how you act, others will mimic that behavior and do the same for you. Itās also important to maintain eye contact, have an open posture, smile and nod to show youāre listening, etc., as being physically open will make others more comfortable around you.
Initiating vulnerability during the conversation through your words and not being afraid to talk about deeper subjects, as well as following up with open-ended questions, is another great way to make people open up to you.
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The Small Talk
Once you approach someone, youāre going to have to accept the fact that thereās probably going to be some awkward small talk at first.
Transitioning from small talk to a deeper conversation is a skill that takes practice, but an easy way to start is by embracing the awkwardness
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The Three Stages
We often find ourselves with nothing to say during conversations, which often leads nowhere and results in a lack of connection. However, by improving our conversational abilities, itās possible to combat that.
As such, here are the three stages
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You Donāt Have To Say Much
Donāt be interesting, be interested.
You donāt have to say a lot to have a good conversation, as actively listening to the people youāre talking with and building off of it is a great way to make them open up and to establish a good connect...
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The Approach
Many people struggle to get past this stage due to a fear of rejection; however, through introspection and confronting and coming to terms with the socializing problems in your past, you can overcome that.
Journaling is especially useful, and it can be help...
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A Few Final Thoughts
Itās important to remember that the entire conversation doesnāt have to be deep and meaningful and that humor can also help forge strong connections.
Another thing is that most conversations in life are going to be messy, and thatās okay, because the rare o...
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Hereās a summary of Cole Hastingsās video on how to overcome social awkwardness.
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Reducing your personal filter
The reason we are afraid to open up, to share some things is the fact that we are afraid of how others will react.
If you want to make someone be comfortable in your presence and feel safe to open up, consider reducing the filter you use for "judging" the world around you.
The Basics Of Conversation
Control the flow of conversation and make others feel comfortable:
- Think of things you would and wouldnāt like to talk about and use that as an initial guide.
- Be nice, as opposed to trying to sound brilliant.
- Tell stories.
- Ask questions.
Donāt panic
Even if you don't remember what you have to say next, don't act on that fear that hits you and avoid to tense up.
To recover from this moment, adopt an open posture, take deep breaths, talk slowly and smile. It will make you feel more comfortable.
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