The Wrong Reasons - Deepstash
The Wrong Reasons

The Wrong Reasons

People is addicted to love because they go into relationships for the wrong reasons.

They know what loneliness and rejection mean. Therefore, as soon as they get a sniff of love, they jump at it.

This will spur them to become obsessive. They are scared of returning to their state of loneliness.

Instead of loving out of fear, we are advised to love ourselves first.

Self–love will help us cherish being alone, which will stop us from jumping into a relationship for the wrong reasons.

237

2.27K reads

CURATED FROM

IDEAS CURATED BY

kautsar.ikrami

A junior reader who enjoy topics that advocate for self-improvement. Also a proponent of healthy living and mindfulness (still learning). Let’s connect and explore the world of books together!

The Mastery of Love explains how we can turn hurt into a learning curve, including how to handle fear.

The idea is part of this collection:

The Halloween Collection

Learn more about books with this collection

Navigating and enjoying the thrill of horror and scare experiences

Historical knowledge of Halloween and its origins

Understanding and appreciating Halloween traditions worldwide

Related collections

Similar ideas to The Wrong Reasons

Influencing for the wrong reasons

If you feel like you're influencing others for the wrong reasons, ask:

  • How am I drawing attention to myself, and away from others?
  • What is the organization missing while it’s focusing on me?
  • If my company relies on me too much, what happens if I need a ...

The Reasons To Read More

  1. Reading is our moral duty: We read because knowledge is power. We become weak and are easily manipulated if we don’t read.
  2. Reading is a way to see the future: The truth is old and preserved in most classic books, which is rehashed and repackaged in...

The Process Of Transformation Through Contentment

  • When we feel a sense of contentment, our satisfaction influences our overall happiness.
  • A simple, minimalistic way of life can help us curb many unwanted desires that cause misery in the future (including financial troubles).
  • The contentme...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Personalized microlearning

100+ Learning Journeys

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates