Explanations and Excuses - Deepstash

Explanations and Excuses

... along with justifications is all we normally blurt out during a heated discussion or argument, and it just makes things worse.

Focus on the present and the future, and not try to justify the past.

118

444 reads

CURATED FROM

IDEAS CURATED BY

vanessaw

I like movies, reading books and tea. I also listen to a lot of podcasts.

The idea is part of this collection:

Inside The Mind of Elon Musk

Learn more about communication with this collection

The importance of innovation

The power of perseverance

How to think big and take risks

Related collections

Similar ideas to Explanations and Excuses

Minimize The Catastrophizing

  1. Stop worrying about the future, or dwelling on the past too much, and stay in the present, as it is the only reality there is.
  2. Focus on the facts, not on the imaginative speculation in your head.
  3. Go through the worst-case scenario in your ...

Live One Day At A Time

Live One Day At A Time

Try to avoid getting nervous about the future. Just live each day until bedtime.

Only think about and focus on the current day. We cannot go back to the past or see the future. The future is today.

Time Travelling And Your Future Self

Thinking about past challenges that were resolved by us helps us get into the ‘glory’ mode and reclaim it in the present, along with envisioning a future point in time when things will be better.

Imagining our future self makes us harder to take the bait of instant gratification, and helps...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Personalized microlearning

100+ Learning Journeys

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates