Respect for Autonomy
Other people do not exist for the purpose of giving you what you need. They have their own needs and desires.
It's okay to say "Honey, I feel uncomfortable when you have male friends because it makes me worried that you might replace me. Can you talk to me and tell me what you like and value about me so I can work through this insecurity?" ✅
It's not okay to say "Honey, I feel uncomfortable when you have male friends, so I don't want you to talk to other men." 🚫
It is really NOT OK to say "Honey, give me your phone so I can check and make sure you're not talking to other men." ❌
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