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Understanding the concept of the self
The importance of living in the present moment
The illusion of control
Figuring Out Your Opponent's Point Of View
Get into the other person’s shoes and figure out why their point of view is so important for them.
Conflict is almost inevitable in an argument due to both the parties ‘doubling down’ on their confirmation bias. Instead of going the way of souring your relations, a better approach is to have an open mind and simply understand the other person’s point of view.
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How Confirmation Bias Influences Our Communication
- When we confront new information, we interpret it to support our existing beliefs. Any thought or discussion that confirms our prejudice and thought patterns seems appealing to us and is known as confirmation bias.
- When we try to argue our case (because of course, we are r...
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Right And Wrong In An Argument
Arguing with someone generally means that only one person can win by default, a productive and healthy debate can mean there is a good amount of learning for both the participants and the aim is to have a positive outcome benefiting all.
The subject of right and wrong is itself sub...
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The Fallacy Of Arguments
The fallacy of our seemingly perfect argument lies in the fact that we assume that the other person is reasonable and logical, just as we are. That is not true in both cases.
Most of us have gotten into an argument where no matter how hard we try, we cannot seem to get thr...
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Argument Etiquette
When engaging in a debate, here are a few things to take care of:
- Empathize with the other person’s point of view.
- Try not to make the debate a ‘he-said-she-said’ slinging fest, and keep it productive and solution-based.
- Do not argue in an email or text message, as ...
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Minimizing Motivated Reasoning
As most of us have preexisting mental models, it is hard to change one’s mind and completely eliminate the various cognitive biases.
- Start with an open mind about people who disagree with you.
- Question your own assumptions and beliefs, aiming to understand the big picture an...
Respect Their Point Of View
The best way to keep an argument calm is to be as kind as possible. Respectfully acknowledge the other person's viewpoint, even if you don't agree with it.
Say things like "I see what you're saying there," or "That's a good point."
Win people to your way of thinking
- The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
- Never say, “You’re wrong.” Respect the other person’s opinions.
- If you are wrong, admit it.
- Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.
- Let the other person do a great de...
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