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Respect in relationships

People who have been through divorces almost always say communication is the most important thing. But the thing people with happy marriages consider the most important is a deep respect for their partner as well as respect for themselves.

  • Respect means never talking bad about your partner or complain about them to your friends.
  • Respect that they have different hobbies, interests, and perspectives.
  • Respect that they have an equal say in the relationship, that you are a team.
  • No secrets. Respect means you feel safe sharing your deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

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If there is a bedrock of respect for each individual's interests and values underpinning the relationship, each individual is encouraged to foster their own growth and development. Each individual will evolve in different and unexpected ways.

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If something bothers you in the relationship, you must be willing to say it out loud to your partner. Doing so builds trust, and trust creates intimacy. If you cannot trust, you cannot be trusted.

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Relationships, like muscles, cannot get stronger without stress and challenge. You will have to fight at times and hash things out. However, it is essential to know how to fight.

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