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Personal values: how knowing yourself can guide your actions - Ness Labs
Shaping your personal values
Your values will not be fixed; they change throughout your life. While this process happens naturally, you can proactively decide to shape your values.
- Confront your values to actual experiences. When you notice that you live differently to your value, consider whether your value really reflects the way you want to behave in the world.
- Develop self-awareness. Accept that sometimes your values are at fault and you may have to replace it with a better value.
- Actively question your values. You don't need to wait until experience contradicts your values. You can challenge your values at any time at a more abstract level.
The goal is to live a life of self-discovery.
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