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If you want to get along with people, you have to understand that like an onion, people have layers, and one has to peel the layers from them to reveal their real, amazing nature. No one is inherently boring.
You have to take responsibility, actively engage and delight the person. Example: The quiet person that no one talks to can be nurtured simply by listening with empathy and respect.
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Charismatic people keep up the motivational levels of their team members by being encouraging, optimistic and a bundle of energy and positivity.
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When we admit our weakness, we are more human, likeable and authentic. This honest and imperfect person becomes charismatic, something known as the vulnerability effect.
Don’t try to interact with people if you are not feeling your best, either emotionally, physically or mentally.
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