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Vulnerable Narcissism
We may have seen some hypersensitive people at work, or among friends, who are taking everything to heart, being defensive, spiteful, and avoidant with their interactions. These people are easily hurt and are always insecure, in self-doubt, or in some kind of deep pain.
Their vulnerability makes them fragile and may lead them to hurt themselves and their loved ones.
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Narcissism: Strike A Balancing Act
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The struggle to define boredom
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- From 1986, the opposite was found. A study found that boredom caused less concentration.