Use a Red Herring - Deepstash

Use a Red Herring

Instead of making one single offer, try offering 3 possible scenarios:

  1.  Something that works for you but can be very expensive for the other party. A win-lose.
  2.  The red herring. Something that is a lose-lose for both parties. An option through which no one wins.
  3. Something that is a middle ground and a win-win for both.
Social psychology shows when you present  more options (the red herring), the other party will rarely decline all the options.

192

518 reads

CURATED FROM

IDEAS CURATED BY

emmm

Aspiring creative writer. I like spicy food and good people.

The idea is part of this collection:

De-escalate Office Tension

Learn more about personaldevelopment with this collection

How to create a positive work environment

Conflict resolution strategies

Effective communication in the workplace

Related collections

Similar ideas to Use a Red Herring

Generate creative options

Generate creative options

There are four obstacles to creating options:

  1. Parties may decide prematurely on an option and fail to consider alternatives.
  2. Parties may want to narrow their options to find one answer.
  3. The parties may assume one side should win and the other lose.

Distributive Negotiation

Refers to a competitive negotiation strategy which is used when the parties seek to distribute a fixed resource such as money, assets, etc. between themselves. 

It is also known as zero-sum, or win-lose negotiation, in the sense that the parties to negotiation try to claim the maximu...

Win-Win Negotiation

It involves working to get the best deal possible for yourself while also working to ensure that your counterpart is satisfied.

The “win-win” negotiators seem to have the most success. 

It doesn’t mean you to split resources right down the middle with a sole focus on being “fai...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Personalized microlearning

100+ Learning Journeys

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates