Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment - Deepstash

Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment

These people are high in their desire for emotional and physical closeness, but also high in their insecurity and anxiety about their relationship.

  • Negative view of themselves and positive view of others
  • Have a strong pull towards emotional and physical closeness
  • Often feel that they want to be closer and more intimate with others, and that others often don’t reciprocate this desire with the same intensity
  • Can often experience anxiety and even distrust when they spend time apart from their partner
  • Worry that they may be too much or need too much from others
  • Fear and show sensitivity to abandonment and rejection in a relationship
  • Can become overly dependent on partners
  • Can have high levels of emotional expression and worry, and often exhibit signs of emotion dysregulation and impulsivity in the relationship
  • In arguments, they are more likely to persist and pursue the person they are arguing with

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