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Being Unkind To Ourselves

There is an unconscious impluse to be unkind to ourselves and commit self-torture using our own mind. The way we treat others is a subconscious internalization of how others have treated us.

Example: If we were ignored or shunned by others, we are more likely to do the same.

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Self-Awareness Is The Solution

If we want to get out of the downward spiral of self-loathing and stop ourselves from self-destruction, we need to start being self-aware and understand the virtues of forgiveness, mercy, steadfastness and resilience.

Our survival depends on our thinking the best for ourselves, an...

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We Are Our Own Worst Enemy

We Are Our Own Worst Enemy

Self-loathing is real and surprisingly common. We sometimes hate ourselves more than any person could. This phenomenon takes many shapes:

  1. Anticipating something bad to happen after something good has happened, with an assumption that your happiness will be followed by misery.

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From a young age, we learn how to be a good friend to others. We learn how to share and to treat others how we want to be treated.

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Synonyms Of The Ego In Psychology

  • Self-Concept: Our own self-image, the way we perceive ourselves.
  • Identity: Our social status, physical characteristics and abilities.
  • Self-Perspective: Our own unique view of ourselves and the world around us.

Reasons Why Self-Knowledge Is Rare

  1. The unconscious mind performs most of our tasks and even how we behave.
  2. Our mind is divided into three parts: the primitive the limbic(emotions and memories) and the neocortex (higher reasoning). We are mostly operating from the primitive or emotio...

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