8. Build A Bridge, Don't Burn One - Deepstash

8. Build A Bridge, Don't Burn One

Constructive criticism’s aim is to strengthen people, not to tear them down. Focusing on the issue or the behavior and not the person helps with that.

Explain the impact the behavior had on the business. Coming from a place of collaboration and support helps keep that bridge of communication.

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