Unspoken Expectations: Guaranteed Failure
- Not speaking to others or having zero communication about one’s expectations is almost guaranteed to make it a failure.
- Open communication is essential to improve the chances of one’s expectations becoming a reality, but that is also not enough.
- Merely communicating something to the other person and expecting it to be done is an unrealistic expectation by itself, if it is not in the interest of the other person.
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