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The Mental Load Of Mothers

The Mental Load Of Mothers

There are four clear stages of mental work related to household responsibilities: 

  • anticipating needs, 
  • identifying options, 
  • deciding among the options;
  • monitoring the results. 

Mothers did more in all four stages, her research showed; while parents often made decisions together, mothers did more of the anticipation, planning and research.

In other words, fathers were informed when it came to decisions, but mothers put in the legwork around them. 

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The fact that mothers end up assuming this mental load has consequences: 

  • Mothers are more stressed, tired and less happy than fathers;
  •  When women thought the distribution of housework was unfair and perceptions of each partner’s contribution differed, it led to marriage prob...

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