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Instead of Saying “No,” Ask “When?”

Instead of Saying “No,” Ask “When?”

  • Instead of saying “no” to your boss or family member, try schedule-syncing.
  • Make sure you block your calendar for meetings and specific work. Sync this calendar with your boss or family member.
  • Make sure you have time sheet to report on what you’re doing during your working hours.
  • After this, if someone gives you work, ask politely: “When?”

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