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Try To Genuinely Relate

Try To Genuinely Relate

Don’t force the conversation. Try to hit on something the other person is passionate about that you’re also interested in. That way, the rapport is genuine and the person is more open to talking in-depth about the subject.

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1. Become genuinely interested in other people

1. Become genuinely interested in other people

This is the most important principle in Carnegie's book. It's about taking the time to learn about other people's interests and concerns. When you show genuine interest in someone, they're more likely to feel like you're paying attention to them and that you value their company.

5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests

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