When you create a difference in someone's life, you not only impact their life, you impact everyone influenced by them throughout their entire lifetime.No act is ever too small. One by one, this is how to make an ocean rise.

To measure the quality of your life, simply do nothing and see how it feels.

Real generosity to the future lies in giving all to the present.

If you are more worried about pleasing others than about caring for yourself, it might mean that there is trauma in your body telling you that you are only safe when other people are pleased with you.Perhaps it's time to heal that trauma so you can learn to let people down while you honour your own needs.

It's not only children who grow.Parents grow too.As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours.I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself.

Being brave doesn't mean you aren't scared.Being brave means you are scared, really scared, badly scared, and you do the right thing anyway.

Whatever you do, do with determination.You have one life to live; do your work with passion and give your best.Whether you want to be a chef, doctor, actor, or a mother, be passionate to get the best result.

In moments of doubt, I've told myself firmly - if not me, who? If not now, when?If you have similar doubts when opportunities are presented to you, I hope those words might be helpful.

Quotes that I liked and keep re-visiting...

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Words of Wisdom: Life, Courage, and Passion

Well, we might all know that feeling of why life is not moving?  Even though you get up everyday, you keeping thinking about how you could have spend the day instead of actually doing it.

How does it feel when you are stuck?

There are many ways to avoid feeling stuck:-<ol><li>Stop feeling sorry for yourself</li><li>Watch your mouth</li><li>Don't make excuses</li><li>Don't compare</li><li>Keeping moving</li></ol>

How to get out of it?

Don't even think second time, just get up and do it. Do whatever you should be doing at that particular moment don't wait life to make things happen for you. Only you can just get up and do it.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself

The way you think a situation is going to be or the way you think about everything is going to be, will effect your reality. The way you look at a situation is the way it is, if you take it in a positive way it is positive, if not then, not. Whenever you are alone guard your thoughts, don't let negative thoughts flow your way interpret them and end it with a positive thought.

Watch Your Mouth

I know you might have said to yourself i will do it tomorrow today i am tired.Stop doing this and just do whatever you are planning to do all this time, it can be  writing your first book, learning something new and anything else. Don't think too much, start it and commit to it.

Don't make excuses

If you are trying to do something, first things first don't look at others and feel bad that you have not yet reached where they have reached. Just remember that you have just started and you will reach there too.

Don't compare

Exercise. Yeah as simple as that. The time you spend on scrolling YouTube shorts, Instagram reels and what not, can be spent in exercising and taking care of your body. Spare some time for workout, it can be from 20-40 mins and you would notice difference in your mood and your body.

Keeping moving

You control your life or else your life will control you.

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Ways to keep going when you life feels stuck

When life feels like it's on hold, don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Take positive steps to keep moving in the right direction.

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Habits

5 Ways to Keep Going When Life Feels On Hold

Everybody’s got a plan, till they get punched in the face. And now, especially now, no one is going to fight now. People like talking now, they get on a stage, they get on Youtube, and they start talking.And some people are not made for handling criticism. Some people go off the deep end once you start criticizing them. I’ve gotten better at handling criticism as I’ve gotten older, but I can get even better.Sometimes I think in my head that I’m somebody, and then I’m easily offended. But when I know I’m nobody, I could never be offended.

“Some people go off the deep end once you start criticizing them.”

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Philosophy

Mike Tyson: Sometimes I Think In My Head That I’m Somebody

To be self-critical is imperative if one wishes to project influence outward. What are your talents? Where are your weak points? What stirs your deepest passion to action? No one can be inside your head but you. Honest self-assessment is absolutely required. A man fully aware of his capabilities can then use them for the greater good. The first step is to figure out just who and what you are.

1. Study Yourself 

Whatever your vision, whatever your plan, two heads are always better than one. Network with and seek out others with the same general belief system as yours. Listen as much as you speak and always analyze and absorb, tweaking your ideas as you move along. It’s important to nurture your first couple of followers as Derek Sivers humorously explains in How To Start A Movement.

2. Seek Out Other Like-Minded Individuals 

If you want to have a positive impact you have be consistent, reliable, and treat others with dignity. <a href="https://www.allprodad.com/10-ways-to-be-a-man-of-integrity/">In other words you need to have integrity and a strong moral framework. </a>Otherwise, you will drift with the cultural wind or join in whatever is popular with the crowd. Drifters never make an impact.

3. Ethics And Integrity 

Many people shut down and go with what they already think they know. Yet, circumstances and conditions are always in a constant state of change, and what might have been correct yesterday can be disastrous today. It requires active participation to make sure you are still learning. Do not trust just one source, one opinion, or one ideology.

4. Keep Learning 

Draw on your own pain to relate as best you can to the pain of others. Open up your heart and your mind to their needs. If you understand them, then you can help them. And ultimately, you can lead them.

5. Develop Compassion 

Ego can wreck even the best plans and intentions. Don’t focus on recognition, but rather on moving the mission forward. This is something that most will never be able to accomplish because it is against our nature and training to accept zero recognition for our achievements. Yet, if you master the ability to sit in the shadows as you watch your work blossom, you will soon learn that no deed goes unrewarded no matter how small.

6. Focus On The Mission 

Creating the type of change you wish to see is serious and tough business. You fail far more often than you succeed, and those with weak spirits will not last long. Stay focused on the finish line and whatever you do, find the inner strength and conviction to keep moving toward it.

7. Keep Your Heart And Mind On The End Game 

Change involves moving out of our comfort zones. It takes great courage to stand up, stand out, and go. It takes even greater courage to have the conviction to remain steadfast after experiencing failure. Change will always be resisted and reviled until it is proven to be a better option. To get to that point, courage and conviction are of utmost importance.

8. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Giving should always be our primary focus. We should have things we wish to do in our life but can’t because we give away too much. The world is full of those who will take. Positive change requires sacrifice and giving hearts. Give of your time, your talents, your blessings, and especially your love. In this way alone, one man truly can change the world. A simple gesture of kindness to a person in need creates ripples of change that spread far and wide.

9. Give Until It Hurts

At the end of the day, follow the call God has placed on your heart and trust Him. You were created for a purpose. You were created to love and serve others. Walk confidently in that promise.

10. Faith

What if the world is a big disappointment? Can you change it? Here are some steps from All Pro Dad on how to change the world and make a difference.

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Problem Solving

10 Steps for You to Change the World

When you lie to someone it is always because of fear.
Fear of being:
<ul>
<li>Cancelled</li>
<li>Punished</li>
<li>Guilty</li>
</ul>
Don't be ashamed of your:
<ul>
<li>Thoughts</li>
<li>Emotion</li>
<li>Knowledge</li>
</ul>
Be unapologetic and honest always.

1. Always be Honest

Stop being in a relationship with you screens. P*rn, video games, social media and all other forms of instant gratification should be avoided by you.

2. Instant Gratification

Don't make others feel inferior. You break the code of brotherhood when you see someone as inferior and put them down. Brotherhood means respecting each one of your clan.

3. Think beyond yourself

Care and love yourself. Hygiene is the simplest and most practical way to level up yourself. Not just makes you disciplined, but also helps you boost your self-confidence.

4. Maintain your Hygiene

Take responsibility for your life. Set your standards high in your life and stop blaming the world, school, and parents for problems you face in your life. Try reverse engineering and map out a mental image of your future life.

5. Take Responsibilty

You become a man when you learn to manage expenses. When you make more, you can invest more on yourself and hence you become a better person.

6. Earn More & more Money

You take a tough decision to change due to temporary motivation, but when the motivation is gone, you fail miserably!
What's the core problem?
DISCIPLINE!

7. Be Disciplined

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Reading & Writing

HABITS THAT TURN BOYS INTO MEN

I may not have seen the Himalayan, but I have seen Bangabandhu and his firm determination even surpasses Himalayas!!

As long as will remain Padma,Meghna and Yamuna, so shall the glory of Bangabandhu.

Bangabandhu was the greatest leader of his time. His struggle is known to all and his determination is the reason we are independent today.

Bangabandhu -A Visionary

“This may be my last message, from today Bangladesh is independent.I call upon the people of Bangladesh, wherever you might be and whatever you have, to resist the army of occupation to the last. Your fight must go on until the last soldier of the Pakistan occupation army is expelled from the soil of Bangladesh and final victory is achieved.”

My greatest strength is that I love my people and my greatest weakness is that I love them too much,

When you play with a gentleman,you play like one. But when you with bastards, you have to be the bigger one. Otherwise, they will get you.

Bangabandhu is the man for whom the sun shines,

Famous quotes by Bangabandhu,,

Bad shit happens.Sometimes it's our fault, sometimes it's just an unfortunate coincidence. But by taking responsibility, we can learn how to manage disappointment and make better plans for the future.

1. STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM

Some people are born rich.Some are born poor.We can't always control our circumstances, but we can control how we react to them and overcome challenges.Focus on the things you can control, and forget about the things you can't.

2. STOP BLAMING YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES

Lasting success rarely comes as the result of luck, you have to position yourself correctly to recognize opportunity and be able to act when it appears. That positioning is the result of being perceptive and taking action!

3. STOP CALLING SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE "LUCKY"

Shit happens. Once again, we are defined by our reactions to the hardships in our life, not by the hardships themselves. Keep your head up and keep moving - this is the single difference between success and failure.

4. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

Life will try to beat you down, but it can only win if you let it. Develop a desire to perform, even in uncomfortable situations, and you'll already be ahead of 99% of your competition.

5. STOP BEING A B*TCH

HOW TO UNF*CK YOURSELF

Here's how (5 STEPS):

'This self-help book is the equivalent of those British Military Fitness boot camps where the instructor screams at you to do squats in the pouring rain ... it's an approach that has won legions of fans ... it's appealingly direct advice.' The Times This is not the usual self-help book. It's time to unf*ck yourself and unleash your greatness! This is blunt force trauma to the way you think life has to be for you. Most importantly, it is designed to give you an authentic leg up - one that feels genuine and right for you, and can propel you to new levels of greatness. It will teach you not to look to the outside world for answers, but inside yourself. You will learn how to take full responsibility of your life, the highs and the lows, and you'll actually feel good about it - no, in fact, you'll feel f*cking great about it!

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Books

Joining the ranks of The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, You Are a Badas*, and F*ck Feelings comes this refreshing, BS-free, self-empowerment guide that offers an honest, no-nonsense, tough-love approach to help you move past self-imposed limitations. Are you tired of feeling fu*ked up? If you are, Gary John Bishop has the answer. In this straightforward handbook, he gives you the tools and advice you need to demolish the slag weighing you down and become the truly unfu*ked version of yourself. ''Wake up to the miracle you are,'' he directs. ''Here's what you've forgotten: You're a fu*king miracle of being.'' It isn't other people that are standing in your way, it isn't even your circumstances that are blocking your ability to thrive, it's yourself and the negative self-talk you keep telling yourself. In Unfu*k Yourself, Bishop leads you through a series of seven assertions: I am willing. I am wired to win. I got this. I embrace the uncertainty. I am not my thoughts; I am what I do. I am relentless. I expect nothing and accept everything. Lead the life you were meant to have—Unfu*k Yourself.

Gary John Bishop is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Gary John Bishop has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Gary John Bishop's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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Unfu*k Yourself

Unf*ck Yourself

“A quitter never wins - and - a winner never quits.”

“Dreams are not born of indifference, laziness, or lack of ambition.”

“Men who succeed reach decisions promptly, and change them, if at all, very slowly. Men who fail, reach decisions, if at all, very slowly, and change them frequently, and quickly.”

“If you must be careless with your possessions, let it be in connection with material things.”

“Every adversity brings with it the seed of an equivalent advantage.”

“Both poverty and riches are the offspring of thought.”

“Verily, there is nothing, right or wrong, which belief, plus burning desire, cannot make real.”

“Indecision is the seedling of fear! Remember this, as you read. Indecision crystalizes into doubt, the two blend and become fear!”

“He knew that the mind could produce anything the mind could conceive and believe.”

“The way of success is the way of continuous pursuit of knowledge.”

10 of the best book quotes from Think and Grow Rich

Ever wondered how life would be if we could condition our minds to Think and Grow Rich? Author Napoleon Hill claims to have based this book on twenty years of rigorous research on the lives of those who had amassed great wealth and made a fortune. Observing their habits, their ways of working and the principles they followed, Hill put together laws and philosophies that can be practiced in everyday life to achieve all-round success. The narrative is rich with stories and anecdotes, which not only inspire, but also show a way forward to take action. After all, riches are not just material, but also pertaining to the mind, body and spirit.  Having sold more than fifteen million copies across the world, this book remains the most read self-improvement book of all times!

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Money & Investments

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Business

Oliver Napoleon Hill was an American self-help author. He is best known for his book Think and Grow Rich, which is among the best-selling self-help books of all time. Hill's works insisted that fervid expectations are essential to improving one's life.

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Think and Grow Rich

Overcoming self-doubt is possible by focusing on the present moment and doing our best. It is important to not give up on ourselves and to keep trying and learning. Identifying triggers, challenging negative thoughts, and talking to someone we trust can also help in overcoming self-doubt.

How To Stop Doubting Yourself 

Overcoming self-doubt is achieved by focusing on the present moment and giving our best effort.

Being prese

It is crucial to not give up on ourselves and to continue trying and learning.

Don’t Give Up

Identifying triggers, challenging negative thoughts, and talking to someone we trust can aid in overcoming self-doubt.

Identifying The Root Cau

Keeping a list of accomplishments helps in remembering strengths and capabilities.

Lists Of Achievements 

Self-doubt is common, but with time and effort, it can be overcome to achieve goals.

Be patient 

Self Help Is Important and only you have the power to to help yourself 

Overcoming self-doubt is possible by focusing on the present moment and doing our best. It is important to not give up on ourselves and to keep trying and learning. Identifying triggers, challenging negative thoughts, and talking to someone we trust can also help in overcoming self-doubt.

Highlights
🎯 Overcoming self-doubt is achieved by focusing on the present moment and giving our best effort.
🗝️ It is crucial to not give up on ourselves and to continue trying and learning.
🧩 Identifying triggers, challenging negative thoughts, and talking to someone we trust can aid in overcoming self-doubt.
📝 Keeping a list of accomplishments helps in remembering strengths and capabilities.
🌟 Self-doubt is common, but with time and effort, it can be overcome to achieve goals.

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Timeless Motivation

How To Stop Doubting Yourself | A Powerful Zen Story

You must take personal responsibility for your actions.You cannot keep blaming others for everything wrong happening in your life.You may not be able to change the circumstances but you can change how you perceive every situation.

1. Take 100% Responsibility For Your Life

The first step to getting the things you want out of life is to decide what you want.You must have clarity about your goals and what you want out of your life. Define your goals first, and then work towards achieving them.

2. Decide What You Want

Most people fail at anything they do because they are not consistent with their efforts.If you stay consistent with your efforts, you will be able to achieve anything you set your mind to.

3. Consistency Leads To Results

Almost 70% of the problems you face in your day-to-day life are out of your control.It's better to not worry about them and focus on things you can control. By following this, your life will become less stressful.

4. Don't Worry About Things You Can't Control

When you choose self-growth, you will disappoint a lot of people.But you know what? Their opinions don't matter.They are scared because they are stuck in the same place and you are growing.Become the best version of yourself.

5. Never Feel Guilty About Choosing To Grow

Procrastination is a deadly habit that will turn your dreams into dust.Instead of procrastinating on your dreams or the task, you have in hand, schedule a plan, break down your tasks, and complete them step by step.

6. Procrastination Will Destroy Your Dreams

Comparing yourself with others will only make you miserable.Ignore what everyone else is doing and just focus on yourself. Your life is not about everyone else, it's about you.

7. Compare Only With Yourself

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Love & Relationships

HOW TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE IN 6 MONTHS

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