You're setting in a cafe or a train, maybe an airplane, and you're surrounded by people people who are minding their own business as you are, suddenly, an alarm breaks out or someone shouts out to announce a potential threat, unless you are free to run away and leave it behind. you will be most probably seeking shelter and that's that, but... Have you ever thought of the reason for this, i mean no one of ciurse wants to get hurt or injured, but why? Well, We do we often think of shelter whenever an idea of a potential threat arises, and that what Russell called, the paradox of security blanket.

The Security Blanket Paradox 

In Bertrand Russell's "Problems of Philosophy," the "security blanket paradox" is a metaphorical concept used to describe a common psychological predicament experienced by humans. It arises when individuals latch onto these sources of comfort, akin to someone holding onto a security blanket. While it initially provides a sense of safety, it ultimately becomes a source of anxiety too. This is because people not only worry about the original hazards and uncertainties but also become anxious about the potential loss or damage to their "security blanket" (the possession, relationship, or beliefs

Coinage Of The Term And Definition 

You might have seen the representation of a security blanket around us in other people even in our selves on different levels, lucky cigarettes, seat belts, possessions, certains relegious beliefs and certain body shapes. However, my own favorite representation would be Chuck McGill from the TV series better call saul

Examples Of Security Blankets 

For those who have not seen the masterpiece "better call Saul" Chuck is a character who embodies elements of the "security blanket paradox" in his own way. Chuck is an intelligent and accomplished lawyer, but he suffers from a psychological condition known as electromagnetic hypersensitivity (EHS), leads him to believe that he is extremely sensitive to electromagnetic fields.It becomes a central plot point in the series, and it is the source of significant anxiety and insecurity for him he goes to great lengths to protect himself from electromagnetic radiationincluding wearing a space blanket

Chuck McGill

Chuck's character serves as a complex and tragic example of how clinging to a perceived source of security, even one rooted in irrational beliefs or anxieties, can have detrimental effects on one's life and well-being.The idea is not to drop your guard and untie your seat belt driving off a cliff, but to open your eyes to the real nature of threats and differentiate between them and challenges for growth, we all have our fears but your blanket is not bullet proof, some times it is better to look for a solution instead of a shelter.

Conclusion 

While we would wish to get back to hiding under our blankets when young, reality subjects that challenges all around us are to be confronted 

Immensely intelligible, thought-provoking guide by Nobel Prize winner considers such topics as the distinction between appearance and reality, the existence and nature of matter, idealism, inductive logic, intuitive knowledge, many other subjects. For students and general readers, there is no finer introduction to philosophy than this informative, affordable and highly readable edition.

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So once upon a time, there was an ordinary fish who lived in the great sea, not being aware he was in it. He believed that he swam up and down and around in an empty space all by himself which he thought was very clever of him.
But One day he started overthinking “What if he forgets how to swim and falls down into the abyss of the great sea? At that moment, all his skill of swimming had left him and he began to fall. In the midst of the fall, he realised there is only one way of saving himself to grab hold of his own tail with his mouth and hold himself up.

Have you heard the parable of the fish who found the sea?

But the faster he chased his own tail, the faster it moved away. Consequently, he was getting nowhere and his life was becoming meaningless and dull. but he was also too afraid to stop. He was sure if he stopped, he would fall down into the abyss. All this while the great sea had been watching this with a sense of amusement and worry. So the great sea called out to him, “What do you think you’re doing? You have been chasing your own tail for quite a while and yet you’re nowhere near to catching it.

Overthinking Is Like Chasing Your Owl Tail

This was too much for the fish, So he stopped chasing and looked around to see who was talking to him. There was no one to be seen and it was strange though how he was still floating in the water as if he was suspended from an empty space.“There, now.” continued the great sea, you thought you were doing it all by yourself and you never knew that I hold you up all the time. Can’t you see, I am the one who is keeping you afloat? I have given all of myself to you and yet you have forgotten me and wasted yourself in pursuing your own end.

Enlightenment At Fish Level 

Then the fish realised how he has always been looked after and protected by the great sea. From that moment that fish was happier than ever.

The moral of the story is that In life, we try so hard to stay in control, fearing if we let go, we’ll fall into some bottomless pit of despair and suffering. 
But what really happens when we let go is that we discover that we are held by something much bigger than ourselves.

The Moral Of The Story

Don’t be so sure that you are doing everything all by yourself. I am sure you have a lot to do with where you’re right now but the universe also played a major role in it. There are always bigger forces in play and you’re already doing the best you can do. So stop overthinking or should I say chasing your own tail.

The Universe Has Your Back 

The fish who found the sea by Alan Watts is a parable with a spiritual lesson about How You’re never alone, Universe is always looking out for you. And How Enlightenment can happen at any level, from fish to plants Everyone is capable of it.

The fish who found the sea by Alan Watts is a parable with a spiritual lesson about being How You’re never alone, Universe is always looking out for you. And How Enlightenment can happen at any level, from fish to plants Everyone is capable of it. I loved it and I recommend it to anyone who is suffering from anxiety and overthinking. It’s barely 8 minutes in audiobook. I recommend both the hardcopy and the audiobook whichever you like.

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The fish who found the sea by Alan Watts is a parable with a spiritual lesson about being How You’re never alone, Universe is always looking out for you. And How Enlightenment can happen at any level, from fish to plants Everyone is capable of it.

I loved it and I recommend it to anyone who is suffering from anxiety and overthinking. It’s barely 8 minutes in audiobook. I recommend both the hardcopy and the audiobook whichever you like.

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STORY OF A FISH WHO FORGOT HOW TO SWIM (For Overthinkers)

I recently watched all of "Rocky" and "Creed". The movies made me want to do one of these quote things. Thus, the following are mostly quotes with little to none explanation.

Intro

1"Because if you're willing to go through all the battling you got to go through to get where you want to get, who's got the right to stop you?"

2"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But, it ain't about how har you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!"

If you don't know how to stand back up after taking a fall you won't keep moving forward. People are going to pass you by, you have to get up and move along. That the way you succeed.

Re: Quote 2

3"That's the toughest opponent you're ever gonna have to face."

In your life you will always be competing against yourself. Don't worry about anyone else focus on your goal and perform.

Re: Quote 3

4"Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in your life."

You don't know how much you can push yourself until you do. You might be tired after doing 20 push ups but you have to mentally push yourself to keep on going.

Re: Quote 4

After working so hard to get to what you wanted to get you keep going. No one can tell you to stop. You've reached your goal, now keep striving.

Re: Quote 1

The Rocky movies are incredibly inspiring, as proven by these iconic quotes and sayings that never left our hearts and minds

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Rocky Balboa: Inspiring quotes and lessons

"Now! This Is It! Now Is The Time To Choose! Die, And Be Free Of Pain, Or Live, And Fight Your Sorrow! Now Is The Time To Shape Your Stories. Your Fate Is In Your Hands!"

"It is better for you to die in hope than to live in despair."

"This is our story! Now let's see this thing through together!"

"I've...Learned How To Smile...Even When I'm Feeling Sad."

I don't care how we do. Long as we play our best. If we give it our all, I can walk away happy.

One of the most beloved and popular RPGs of all time, Final Fantasy X was beloved not only for the gameplay which introduced new leveling and battle system, but also for its technological achievements: it was the first of the immensely popular series to feature 3D arenas and voice acting. As with the acclaimed Third Editions titles that delve into the depth of The Legend of Final Fantasy, this book goes deep into the game scenarios, themes, game development, music and gameplay mechanics. Nothing is left out and every detail of the game is analyzed and explained with unerring precision, including the controversial sequel game, Final Fantasy X-2.

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“Everyone had to be drunk on somethin’ to keep pushing on… Everyone was a slave to something.’“

“Screw your inferiority complex. Don’t run from reality.“

The only truth on this world is that there is no truth. Anyone can become a god or a devil. All it takes is for people to believe it.

“After the fact, it is easy to say, “we should have done something else.” But no one knows how things will turn out.“

“If we only focus on making the best moves, we will never get the better out of it.”

The megahit that inspired the acclaimed anime, now in its second season, continues! GIRDING FOR BATTLE Eren and everyone he has ever known have lived on the island of Paradis. For many years, the Marleyans have been threatening Paradis in an attempt to monopolize the power of the Titans and keep the world trembling before their military might. In an effort to prove their worth and cement their truth, the Marleyans prepare for the ultimate declaration of war on Paradis. But when the time for deliverance comes, neither side is equipped for the shocking drama that unfolds.

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“WHEN WILL I KNOW I’M READY?”“YOU WON’T. IT’S A LEAP OF FAITH.”

I think that we are constantly telling ourselves that we are supposed to have it all figured out and have our plans together but that is foolish. It's okay not to have it all figured out. We just need to keep going and do our best in this world and improve!

An original middle-grade graphic novel from Graphix starring Brooklyn's Spider-Man, Miles Morales, by bestselling author Justin A. Reynolds and Eisner nominee Pablo Leon! Miles Morales is a normal kid who happens to juggle school at Brooklyn Visions Academy while swinging through the streets of Brooklyn as Spider-Man. After a disastrous earthquake strikes his mother's birthplace of Puerto Rico, Miles springs into action to help set up a fundraiser for the devastated island. But when a new student's father goes missing, Miles begins to make connections between the disappearance and a giant corporation sponsoring Miles' fundraiser. Who is behind the disappearance, and how does that relate to Spider-Man?A true middle grade graphic novel starring one of Marvel's most popular characters, bestselling author Justin A. Reynolds (Opposite of Always) and Eisner award-nominated artist Pablo Leon (Refugees) create a riveting story that will connect with new and well-versed comics readers alike.

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"If you really want to be strong... Stop caring about what your surrounding thinks of you!"

"I know no one expects much from me! And I know better than anyone how useless a C Class hero is! I know I'm too weak even for B Class! I know more than anyone else that I'll never beat you! But I must fight you anyway! I'm the only one left! It's not about winning or losing! I just have to stand here and face you!"

"You are calm and intelligent, but youth can invite disaster. Do not fight alone."

"You are too young to worry about failure. In a pinch, just muddle through. The outcome won't change, so that's best."

"Who decides limits? And based on what? You said you worked hard? Well, maybe you need to work a little harder. Is that really the limit of your strength? Could the you of tomorrow beat you today? Instead of giving in, move forward."

Quotes and Insights from Your Favorite Anime Characters

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While Saitama's distracted at a martial arts tournament, Centichoro, a threat-level Dragon monster, attacks! Metal Bat engages it in battle but struggles against its gargantuan size. The monster knocks him into the distance and right into the path of hero-hunter Garo! -- VIZ Media

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It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends

1. By Albus Dumbledore

We’ve all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That’s who we really are.

2. By Sirius Black

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

3. By Albus Dumbledore

Read on to discover the 3 most iconic Harry Potter quotes of all time.

When Harry Potter is left on a doorstep as a baby, he has no idea he is the Boy Who Lived, or that he is famous throughout the wizarding world. Years later, he is astonished to receive an acceptance letter to Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry and he is soon whisked off on a magical adventure like no other. Join Harry and his fiercely loyal friends, Hermione and Ron, in this story about the power of truth, love and hope. Having become classics of our time, the Harry Potter eBooks never fail to bring comfort and escapism. With their message of hope, belonging and the enduring power of truth and love, the story of the Boy Who Lived continues to delight generations of new readers.

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Joanne Rowling CH OBE FRSL, also known by her pen name J. K. Rowling, is a British author and philanthropist. She wrote Harry Potter, a seven-volume children's fantasy series published from 1997 to 2007.

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"If you master one, that's cause for celebration."

"It's not about going first. It's about the overall flow."

“If you can do one thing, hone it to perfection. Hone it to the utmost limit.”

“Growing old and dying is what gives meaning and beauty to the fleeting span of a human life. It’s precisely because we age and die that our lives have value and nobility.”

"There's no other way to go but forward."

Learning to destroy demons won’t be easy, and Tanjiro barely knows where to start. The surprise appearance of another boy named Giyu, who seems to know what’s going on, might provide some answers—but only if Tanjiro can stop Giyu from killing his sister first! -- VIZ Media

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Red carpet events and premieres are some of the most exciting events for a celebrity photographer. The thrill of capturing celebrities in their finest attire amid all the glitz and glamor is an experience like no other. Ronald James, a renowned celebrity photographer with over two decades of experience, has shot countless red-carpet events and premieres, and in this article, we will share his top 6 tips for capturing stunning images in these high-pressure situations.

Ronald James' Top Tips for Shooting Red Carpet Events and Premieres

The first tip for shooting red-carpet events and premieres is to arrive early and be prepared. Ronald James stresses the importance of arriving at the venue well in advance to scout the area and set up equipment. He recommends having multiple camera bodies, lenses, and memory cards on hand to ensure that you're prepared for any situation that may arise.

Tip #1: Arrive Early and Be Prepared

Lighting can be a challenge at red-carpet events and premieres, as the lighting conditions can be unpredictable. Ronald James suggests working with the light available and avoiding the use of flash whenever possible. He advises using a higher ISO and wide aperture to let in as much light as possible and to keep the shutter speed fast to avoid any motion blur.

Tip #2: Work with the Light Available

Red carpet events and premieres can be chaotic, with many photographers vying for the same shots. Ronald James suggests looking for unique angles and compositions to make your images stand out. He advises getting low and shooting upwards or experimenting with different perspectives to create a dynamic and visually interesting image.

Tip #3: Look for Unique Angles and Compositions

When shooting portraits of celebrities on the red carpet, it's essential to focus on the eyes. Ronald James emphasizes the importance of getting sharp, focused images of the subject's eyes, as they are the focal point of the portrait. He recommends using a wide aperture to create a shallow depth of field, which will blur the background and draw attention to the eyes.

Tip #4: Focus on the Eyes

When working with celebrities, it's important to be respectful and professional at all times. Ronald James stresses the importance of maintaining a positive and professional demeanor, even in high-pressure situations. He advises introducing yourself to the celebrity and their team, asking permission before taking any photos, and being mindful of their personal space.

Tip #5: Be Respectful and Professional

While posed portraits are important, candid moments can also make for great shots at red-carpet events and premieres. <a href="https://ronaldjames.com/">Ronald James</a> suggests capturing candid moments between celebrities and their guests, or catching them in unguarded moments as they move through the event. These candid shots can often reveal a more intimate and natural side of the celebrity.

Tip #6: Capture Candid Moments

In conclusion, Ronald James's top 6 tips for shooting red-carpet events and premieres can significantly improve your photography skills and help you capture stunning images. By following his advice on preparation, equipment, lighting, angles, and post-production, you can take your photography to the next level and create memorable images that stand out. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned professional, Ronald James's insights and experiences from <a href="https://ronaldjames.com/portfolio/celebrities/">Ronald James favorite celebrity moments</a> can serve as a valuable resource in your photography journey.

So, next time you're shooting a red carpet event, remember to apply these tips and techniques to create breathtaking images that capture the essence of the moment.

Red carpet events and premieres are some of the most exciting events for a celebrity photographer,

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