Top 10 core habits - one must know, in order to become successful in life

The best way to control emotion is not to flow along with it. You must realize that emotional feeling is not part of the conscious mind. It is a byproduct of our unconscious mind aka the subconscious mind. Think about the consequence, before you act or react at any time.

Our unconscious thoughts have a profound effect on our mindset and also our behavior. We act and react based on the information that goes into our minds. When you think negative thoughts - negative events occur more often. You don't have to feel surprised at these. That is how things work- there is one beautiful saying "Garbage in - Garbage out " and that is how our thoughts work - good thoughts in - good thoughts out - Bad thoughts in - bad thoughts out. So, always be aware of your thoughts.

Our real education in life begins after school. In school, we are not taught, on overcoming real-life situations. And that is why we have to rely on self-education. Some of the, greatest life lessons that I have learned came from self-education, not from school education. How to create a business? How to be financially independent, so on.

One of the worst sins, we all commit at some point of time in our life is. We think if we would have luck then we would have achieved our dreams. But in reality luck or lucky star never really exist. You get luckier, when you endure pain, when you keep working hard on your goals, even if it get's hard - even if sometimes you feel like giving up - If you look for luck or to get luckier you will lose hope in life soon or later because it does not exist.

Sometimes you feel bored, sometimes you will feel like giving up when things are not working the way you want. That is the time when you got to push harder than before - successful people have a habit of doing the boring thing again and again. Even if, they feel bore - cause, they know - if they skip even one day - they are going backward not forward.

The obstacle is away is an awesome book written by Ryan Holiday - which tells you that you must learn to find a way through obstacles - through obstacles only we grow into the person that we want to be. Remember " Quitter never win, the winner never quite"

When we embrace change- we are growing, But when we refuse to embrace the change. We stop growing because change is inevitable. Stoic Philosopher once said " Ignore what you can't change and accept what you can change" And in life, we will come across many things we will not be able to change- and for that reason - we must embrace the change -Think, of this for a second. Can you go back to your childhood, if you are 30 years old now? No way! Right - so, what do you do then? You embrace the change. And move on in life.

At one point in time, we realize that we can't get back the lost time. While, when we are young it is really hard to digest this fact. As we get older, we begin to realize that - time is a non-renewable resource. You can get back the lost opportunity. But, you can't get back the lost time. It is actually good, now you will work harder, you will no longer feel like wasting your precious time.

When you are living in past, you are actually playing back the past story over again and again. It means, if you are past was bad then you are bringing back bad things again and again and only to make you are self feel worst each day. When you go out of the trap of living in past. You are having more control over you are own self. And you will also feel good, not bad.

At the end, of the day you must be realized that is you are past is dead and the future is a road cover with fog. That you can't see through. You can't change the past, but you can change the present and that can change the future.

"It does not matter where you come from, it only matters, where you end up" - Anonymous

London Taxi drivers had to remember the routes of London streets in order to qualify for the taxi driving license. An interesting fact has come up when a researcher scans the Taxi driver's brain on and before obtaining the taxi driving license.

Hippocampus is a part of the brain and is responsible for learning and memory actually increased in size when the Taxi drivers used that part of the brain to remember the routes of London streets. It has been found that their brain shrink back to normal when they stop using that part of the brain after retiring as a taxi driver.

Pain is temporary, regret is permanent and forever. Why? would you want to avoid pain, when you know that pain is a teacher? When you know that it will help you grow into the person that you want to be. When you know that you will not stay forever. Someone said it so well - "Pain will leave you, once it is done teaching you"