Why Strong Chemistry Doesn't Always Lead to a Strong Relationship - Tiny Buddha

It very often happens that we fall in love, while feeling uncontrollably attracted to, with individuals who end up breaking our hearts. Anthropologists found four personality types, as follows:

• the explorer: whose main trait is the curiousity
• the builder: who is defined by his need to manage
• the director: who is extremely analytical and narrow-minded
• the negotiator: who sees the big picture
  A factor of major importance, when falling in love with someone, is how we perceive our childhood. We all tend to search for persons who can heal us from a memory or a pain lived at some point in our life.

Feeling chemistry with someone can lead not only to successful relationships, but also to major traumatic experiences. Not being able to put your needs first, while accepting their drawbacks, only because you are immensely attracted to that person, can actually break your spirit.