• It is the ability to deal with difficult moments
• It is being able to keep going when everyone says it is impossible
• It is chose to take a path never traveled
• It is doing that extra miles when no one to continue.

1. Take time to think and define what you really want in life. Eg: if money and time weren't a problem what would you pursue?
2. Set your values, principles. Stephen Covey explain a principle is something constant over the time. Eg: honesty is a good principle while pleasure is a bad one.
3. Define your goals. Your goals must be based on your principles. Separate life goals, long term goals and short term. For a better assessment, daily goal is necessary.
4. Always refer to your principles, goals and not to your emotions. Generally people behave according to their emotions. Eg: I feel bad, so can't work.

When pain comes, don't say: why me? Say: try me, is that all you got? When pain comes, it is time to show character, that obstacles exist to be overcome.

Keep your focus on your goals, on what you want to be. Be disciplined, stay strue, keep committed, and your time will come.