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20 Things that Belong On Everyone's TO-DON'T List

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20 Things that Belong On Everyone's TO-DON'T List
Written by Marc Chernoff // Your greatest fear should not be of failure, but of succeeding in life at all the wrong things. This morning as Angel and I were driving to meet a coaching client, another driver a few cars in front of us tossed a large disposable cup out the window.

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Things that Belong on Every Don't-do List

  • Don't be lazy. Spend your time being productive.
  • Don't just take the default path. Don't go with the mainstream, make your own flow.
  • Don't wait for the perfect time, it is what's waiting for you.
  • Don’t judge before you know. 
  • Don't make everything seem like it's a chore, focus on every endline.
  • Don't try to conquer everything in a single leap. Everything is a process, be patient.
  • Don't try to hold on everything. When it starts to weigh you down, learn to let go.
  • Don't always be right. Sometimes, the right thing to do, is do nothing.
  • Don’t hide your humanness. Sometimes you have to deal with issues and show others your awkward, uncomfortable side.
  • Don’t think about what could have been.
  • Don’t neglect your present joys.
  • Don’t neglect your close friendships.

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