4 Tricks To Be Charming As An Introvert

The first mistake some introverts make in conversation is forcing themselves to be outgoing all the time. Doing this will drain your social battery fast, so instead learn to front-load your enthusiasm.

This means using your social energy in the moments that matter most: entrances and introductions.

• This doesn't mean you need to go dancing into every room; you can do this by being a big hugger or even just a big smiler.
• Bring energy and enthusiasm to those first few minutes of conversation and later you can transition to whatever energy level feels natural to you.

There's a trick you can use to get people to listen to you, without raising your voice: use hand signals to capture attention.

Hold your pointer finger up while pausing mid-sentence and you can really captivate people without needing to be loud.