The Mindset Mentor - It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You - Deepstash
The Mindset Mentor - It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You

The Mindset Mentor - It’s Not Your Job To Make People Love You

Curated from:

Ideas, facts & insights covering these topics:

3 ideas


1.06K reads



Explore the World's Best Ideas

Join today and uncover 100+ curated journeys from 50+ topics. Unlock access to our mobile app with extensive features.



The quest for acceptance is human nature. Some people try to conform because they fear rejection, this can be traced back to cave times where, when you get separated from the flock it means death - due to the difficulty of surviving alone.

Extreme conformity is poison dressed as wine. It makes other people like you but you end up not liking yourself .


400 reads

Finding Your Truest Self

Finding Your Truest Self

  1. Ask yourself "What are my values?"
  2. Understand your personality. Are you an Introvert? Extrovert? Ambivert? What are your strengths and weaknesses? etc.
  3. Explore your interests. What do you love to do? Is there a habit you haven't done in a long time? What do you wanna try? etc.
  4. Be Honest with yourself. Be honest about who you are, what you wanna do, where you wanna go; how you wanna do it acknowledging when you're wrong etc.
  5. Set boundaries. When you find who you are, you need to decide what you're going to allow and not, who you hang out with, etc. Protect your sense of self.


340 reads

6. Speak your Truth. If you lose people for doing this, they loved the other version of you. Those who stick with you loves you for who you are.

7. Accept that you're weird. Embrace your uniqueness. Your need to fit in will make you invisible in this world. Be comfortable in your own skin.

8. Surround yourself with amazing people. People who love the changes in you. Who supports you.

9. Challenge your beliefs. Finding your truest self is an ongoing process.


322 reads



Be Hungry for Personal Growth

Wisdom Lover's ideas are part of this journey:

How to Live Sustainably

Learn more about writing with this collection

How to make sustainable choices in everyday life

Identifying ways to reduce waste and conserve resources

Understanding the impact of human actions on the environment

Related collections

Read & Learn

20x Faster





Personalized microlearning

100+ Learning Journeys

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.


I agree to receive email updates