Life is a Video Game, These Are the Cheat Codes

We usually create our own character while playing a game, or choose a character we like. For example we create a sim based on our liking, or we choose a fighter on tekken for that same basis. From that, we're given quest and goal to win the game. 

In real life, we're given a character, we don't choose our sexe, race, we're just appreciating what nature gives us. Also, we're the one designing our own quest so it may be confusing. 

There are unlimited quest but we need to know our abilities and strenght in order to find the best quest that suit us.

Skip the side quest, which are usually fun and sexy but won't bring any value to your life. Main quest are mostly boring but the journey is quite enjoyful. 

Finding your main quest won't be easy, but you'll have to go out, try many things and figure out what you're good at. 

Focus on what matters.

Remember, quest are subjective and personal, nobody can do it for you. Discover your character!

As you're building yourself, you'll eventually find out your abilities and strenght. Read books, do sports, watch/listen to a podcast, keep learning, your friend might be able to help you know what you're good at. 

Your goal should be to reveal your character and build your skills. 

Those will help you choose your main quest.

The core idea is that you focus on your quest and let people focus on theirs. That's a way to say you don't have to be involved in people's life too much. Know your limit and put limits so people respect you and your life. It's a really important one.

Learn from your mistake, learn from other's mistake, that's why we learn history, in order to avoid doing the same act. But you need to come with a way of dealing with failure, because the one who won't face failure is the one who didn't do/try anything.

If you love trying new activities, you'll face it regularly, that's why you should enjoy it.

Helping others with their quest will advance you in yours. Humans are inherently social beings, thriving on connections and interactions with others. This social nature not only fosters a sense of belonging and community but also highlights the importance of mutual support. By helping others, individuals not only contribute to the well-being of their community but also experience personal growth and fulfillment. Even in game, it's more fun to play with friends, helping them getting better at it, and you'll have a reliable partner.

Life is an infinite game, with unlimited quests and a lifelong journey finding yourself and pursuing your quest/purpose. It's not about the ending but more about the path you make and take. Like many games, it's better to play with friends so enjoy it with them by sharing the thread of idea.