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Chemistry is made up of subtle behaviors and dispositions that are felt by both parties equally.
It could be the way someone laughs at your jokes or the way they talk to you or help you. The absence of chemistry is normally displayed in the lack of emotional intensity.
High compatibility between people comes from the similarities in their lifestyles and values.
Educated people usually date other educated people. Religious people usually date other religious people. People that are not compatible normally repel one another.
Chemistry and compatibility do not necessarily appear together.
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The building blocks of any relationship rest on compatibility and chemistry. All relationships have a combination of these qualities to a more or lesser extent.
Compatibility can be described as being together without conflict.
Two people can fit like a glove both conversationally and psychologically. For some, that connection alone can be enough to be happy and thrive.
Chemistry is a complex emotional or psychological interaction. It is a natural rhythm between two people that cannot be forced or created.
While some people are content with a relationship that is compatible, others feel an intense desire for that chemistry. Figure out what feels right to you in a relationship and strive for that.
Attachment theory is an area of psychology that describes the nature of emotional attachment between people, starting with your parents. The quality of how well you were cared for will then influen...
50% of the population is secure attachment types.
Don't judge someone by the information they put in an online profile. They may look like a perfect fit, but lack the chemistry when you finally meet in person.
Similarly, it can be easy to write someone off because your ideals don't match on paper. Who's to know if you won't have chemistry in real life?