Dogukan Olgun's Key Ideas from The Five Love Languages
by Gary Chapman

If their motto is "Actions speak louder than words," your partner could have this language. 

By doing things that you know your partner would appreciate, this love language expresses itself. Acts of service include cooking a meal, doing the laundry, and picking up a prescription. They need some attention, time, and effort.

This language of affection is not inherently materialistic. It just means that your partner feels cherished and valued with a meaningful or thoughtful gift. 

After a long work week, something as easy as picking up a pint of their favorite ice cream will make a big difference.

This love language is all about undivided attention. No televisions, no smartphones, or any other distractions.

If this is your partner’s primary language, they don’t just want to be included during this period of time, they want to be the center of your attention. They want their partners to look at them and them only.

To people with this language of affection, nothing is more impactful than their partner's physical contact. 

If your partner's primary love language is Physical Touch, they would feel unloved without physical contact. All of the words and gifts in the world won’t change that. Not only mentally, but physically, they want to feel you close by.

Learning your partner’s and your own primary love language will help create a stronger bond in your relationship.

1. Find your partner's love language
2. Write down a list of things you can do according to their language
3. Take action on a daily or weekly basis
4. Wait for at least a month to see results