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Want to Improve? Ask Yourself These Two Questions

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/how-we-work/201811/want-improve-ask-yourself-these-two-questions

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Want to Improve? Ask Yourself These Two Questions
It was the last race of the ski season. My son Daniel, 10 years old, was at the starting gate in his speed suit, helmet and goggles, waiting for the signal. "3... 2... 1..." The gatekeeper called out and he was gone in a flash, pushing off his ski poles to gain momentum.

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The first step to self-improvement

The first step to self-improvement

Answering with yes to these questions is the first step to self-improvement:

  • Do you want to do better?
  • Are you willing to feel the discomfort of putting in more effort and trying new things that will feel weird and different and won’t work right away?

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