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Three Star Leadership | Wally Bock | The 4 R's of Receiving Feedback

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Three Star Leadership | Wally Bock | The 4 R's of Receiving Feedback
You know feedback is good for you, right? After all, "Feedback is the breakfast of champions" has been a staple of self-development wisdom since Ken Blanchard first said it. So, okay, here comes your boss, or a colleague, or a friend, with a wide load of feedback just for you.

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The 4 R’s of Receiving Feedback

  • Respond: Just say “Thank you.”
  • Record: You will rarely have time to process feedback right away. But don’t trust your memory for later. Record the details.
  • Reflect: If you want to get the most value from feedback, reflect on it.
  • React: Good feedback is only valuable if you act on it. Just thinking about it will not do.

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