Sometimes People Who Can't Control Themselves Try to Control Everyone Else - Deepstash

The need to control everything and everyone around us is nothing more than a defense mechanism. We use it to confront something that at we see as a threat.

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Sometimes People Who Can't Control Themselves Try to Control Everyone Else

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There was a study in 2009 by the psychiatrists Friese and Hoffman on the topic. They discovered that people with little ability to self-regulate end up looking for “everything or nothing” relations...

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We might have someone with these characteristics in our close social circles. Scratch the surface and see under this covering of demands, threats, and obsessions. What’s hiding there is a l...

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We might be doing unconsciously. The trigger comes from financial problems, being abandoned by our significant other, or even the loss of a loved one. They’re significant mome...

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  • Understand that controlling other people won’t improve your current situation. Dominating the people we love is denying their freedom.
  • Understand that 

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