When you’re asking questions, always lead with curiosity. The more genuine interest you can muster—about a subject you’re discussing or a person you’re talking to—the more authentic your questions will be. True curiosity creates bridges and avoids having the person on the receiving end of the question think you’re being confrontational or judgmental.
Embrace the listening aspect of being a questioner. Listening enables you to ask follow-up questions—the hallmark of a good questioner.
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