The Double-Obligated Friendship
Maybe you don't even realize you don't enjoy being friends with this person, or maybe you just like the idea of being friends with them.
Most likely, they feel the same way about you.
You usually get together after a long exchange of texts, because you can't seem to find the time that works for both of you.
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