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The Secure Attachment Style

  • With a secure attachment style, you are comfortable with showing and accepting vulnerability.
  • You are self-aware: you know who you are are you are comfortable in your skin.
  • You don’t really worry about being lonely or if people accept you, and being connected to others is as important as maintaining your independence.

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Fearful-Avoidant

  • This could be you if you are independent, but because you struggle with trusting others.
  • You fear that you might get hurt by other people.
  • You seem detached and distrustful and that will influence in a negative way the way people interact with you.

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Anxious-Preoccupied

  • This could be you if you often feel like you give more to relationships than you get back.
  • You worry people don't value you.
  • You tend to exaggerate when you show people the value you place on them.
  • This anxiety might not be attractive to people that don't have the sam...

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Dismissive-Avoidant

  • This could be you if you put your independence above all.
  • You tend to think less of others.
  • You carefully guard your emotions and try at all costs to keep away from rejection.
  • You're more likely to connect with people who express the anxious-preoccupied type because t...

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Attachment style

It describes the way you relate to others based on how you perceive yourself and the people around you.

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  • People with this style are comfortable showing interest and affection. 
  • They are comfortable being alone and independent.
  • They can correctly prioritize their relationships.
  • They are able to draw clear boundaries and stick with them.

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  • When a partner has a secure attachment style, they feel comfortable and confident in their relationship and in their significant other.
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The Secure Attachment Style

The Secure Attachment Style

It’s likely your primary caretaker was able to stay engaged with you as an infant and effectively manage their own stress as well as calm and soothe you when you were distressed. Having a secure attachment style might look like this:

  • You’re able to be yourself in an intimate relation...

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