Gossip as a Tool

Gossiping is a fundamental human instinct because our lives are deeply rooted in groups and we depend on the people in our groups to survive.

We need to have as much information as possible about the people around us in order to accurately determine expectations, trustworthiness, viewpoints, and so on.

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A Psychologist Explains Why People Gossip-and the Reason Might Surprise You

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A Psychologist Explains Why People Gossip-and the Reason Might Surprise You

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