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Creating a safe space

Creating a safe space

Sometimes, what people really need is just the acceptance that comes with simply hearing them out and not making them wrong. 

The key to remember is that as soon as you judge someone else, you lose all ability to influence them. 

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"Having someone wonder where you are when you don't come home at night is a very old human need." — Margart Mead

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